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Claudia von Ayres's avatar

You say this as if it is an anomaly, that it's not a part of a natural society. Yes,it is frowned upon in Western religious society, but the rest of the world, an affluent man has many wives and many children. In SA, the younger the women he has got the higher status the man has. A woman wants to be with a man that has many wives because those wives will help look after you and the children you bare. They are your midwife, no need for the NHS. It is more natural for a man to want many wives, concubines, whores, groupies... etc. if he is successful. In the West they are called celebrities, in the rest of the world they are called traditional men. You all call it a mental illness: only men who are fucked up can do such a thing. No, it is more natural for a man to "spread his seed" than it is to be in a monogamous relationship of any sort. It was the cold harsh conditions of the European regions that forced such a moral standard on their society. If you don't have affluence, you don't get to have many wives. This has been conditioned into the West over centuries, with their ideology and religious control for survival reasons. The hot Africa countries had no need for such a moral change. I love you for the fact that you think this due to men being mentally unstable. Some sort of childhood trauma. However, I grew up in a reality that it is a norm for men. Konstantin is right women do civilise men but in most of the world women are not allowed to do that. Konstantin said, " where the women are suppressed the food is good" and that also means men who are affluent have many under age wives and concubines. You are right that the more famous and better hits a celebrity has they get away with these sexual crimes, but you are wrong that it is a mental illness. It is just a natural part of being an affluent and successful man. I told my husband I don't want a rich man, I rather live in a tent and have a loving man. I am also very selfish. I rather have a man to myself and be poor than have a rich, successful man, and have to share him with other women. I can't have my bread buttered on both sides. It is one or the other. The West is best, but we must not forget about the rest of the world and their traditional ways. Just look at the Grooming gangs in this country; covered up, blind eye turned and completely avoided, not because the Pakistani men made excellent hits and are proper Teen boy band idols. No, they are from the rest of the world. A place where noncing is a knee jerk reaction and much a part of traditional life. It is not a mental illness or trauma, but natural human behaviour where in the West, like the domesticated feline, has suppressed such savage behavior.

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Marko Arčabić's avatar

I feel like George Michael was supposed to be here but he's vannila with his guilty feet compared to these fuckers...

Good article hermano, got a chuckle too, for that, thanks.

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